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How To Heal From Grief?

Overview

Grief is a natural reaction to any kind of loss. It&rsquo;s something we all experience, but the way it manifests itself varies from person to person. Some people are able to move on quickly, while others find it harder to heal. In this article I&rsquo;ll explain how the stages of grief work and give some tips on how you can help yourself or a loved one through their grieving process. 
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Tips to Heal From Grief

Denial is a defense mechanism. It&rsquo;s a way to protect yourself from the pain of loss, or at least postpone facing it. You may have heard of denial as something that happens during the grieving process, but this isn&rsquo;t quite accurate. Denial doesn&rsquo;t necessarily kick in once someone has died; it can also be an immediate coping mechanism for people who aren&rsquo;t yet ready to admit their loved one is gone.

Denial helps shield you from the <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/natural-remedies-for-pain">pain</a> of grief by avoiding reality and hiding from feelings you&rsquo;d rather not experience (such as anger and sadness). 
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Anger is a natural and healthy reaction to loss. Anger can help you express your feelings, release negative emotions and show others that you are upset or hurt by what happened.

However, while it is normal to feel angry after the loss of someone or something close to you, there are some things that should be avoided when expressing anger:

Don&rsquo;t direct your anger at anyone else. You may have some pent-up frustrations with people associated with the loss (e.g., family members or friends), but directing your rage toward them will only make things worse for everyone involved.&nbsp;

Directing your anger inward instead by staying home from work or school can also be harmful because it could prevent you from accomplishing goals (such as getting back into college).&nbsp;

It&rsquo;s best not to let anger boil over into lashing out at others unnecessarily; instead, find other outlets for releasing negative emotion such as yoga classes or therapy sessions with a counsellor who specialises in grief counselling. 
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When you are bargaining, you are essentially trying to make the best of an intolerable situation. You may start thinking that there is something you could have done differently or something that will help save your loved one&rsquo;s life. You might even try to bargain with God or a higher power in order to get them back again.

For example, you might think, &ldquo;If only I had spent more time with my husband before he died!&rdquo;, &ldquo;If only I hadn&rsquo;t taken so long buying groceries!&rdquo; or &ldquo;If only I had remembered to call him earlier!&rdquo;&nbsp;

While these thoughts and feelings aren&rsquo;t necessarily accurate (the reality is that death or breakups happens when they happen), they can still be helpful if they allow you some peace of mind and perspective during this difficult time of grieving. 
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Bargaining can also manifest itself as guilt &mdash; for instance, if someone close dies from an illness but another person survives the same illness, there may be some sense that it should&rsquo;ve been the other way around, even though there&rsquo;s no real reason for this feeling beyond just being human (and overthinking things).&nbsp;

If this sounds like how you&rsquo;re feeling right now &mdash; like maybe there was something else r someone else who could&rsquo;ve helped prevent their death (for example) &mdash; it might be helpful for friends and family members who care about your well-being (or just want their own questions answered) not dismiss these thoughts or feelings outright by saying things like, &ldquo;It wasn&rsquo;t your fault&rdquo; or &ldquo;Of course everything would have been different if only...&rdquo;&nbsp;

Instead, they could take those questions seriously while acknowledging how hard they must be on whoever lost their loved ones without belittling them at all &mdash; because sometimes just recognising how painful it must feel helps us move forward without letting ourselves stay stuck in grief forever.&rdquo; 
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The final stage of grief is sadness and acceptance. The loss of someone leaves you feeling helpless. There will be times when you are too distracted by the world and work to think about it but at times, it is common to have a depressive episode and completely lose your pace or focus.&nbsp;

People who are unable to cope and accept tend to go into depression at this stage and numb themselves towards the outside world. The only way to avoid suffering from this illness is to deal with your loss and come to terms with it mentally. This requires your maximum input as your experience life without the person, the need for acceptance and doing things differently now. The only way is the way forward.&nbsp; 
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The stages of grief are not a checklist, nor are they rules to follow. They aren&rsquo;t even in the same order for everyone.

The five stages &mdash; denial, anger, bargaining, sadness and acceptance &mdash; are merely a general guide to help you understand what your loved one might be experiencing during their time of grieving. However, everyone grieves differently and no two people will go through all five stages at the same time or in the same way. It&rsquo;s important to remember that every person needs different kinds of support during times like these: some may need lots of love and affection as they work through their feelings; others will want space from others so they can take care of themselves first before reaching out for support later on. 
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The most important thing that needs to be acknowledged is that there is no shortcut to coping with grief. You cannot skip the stages. However, you can make it easy for yourself to handle your grief and speed up the process. Following are the steps that are age-old practices employed by people to help them cope:

<ul>
	<li>There are people around you who care about you, lean on them. Share your feelings with your friends and family. Hangout with them more to keep yourself distracted.</li>
	<li>Be acceptable for whatever support you are getting. Not many people know what to say or how to act around someone grieving, appreciate their efforts. They are doing it because they care.</li>
	<li>Religion has been a very strong catalyst for people struggling with grief. If you believe in one, resort to your faith. Praying can be very relaxing for the mind.</li>
	<li>A support group or therapy. Both allows you to talk about your experience, how it has affected you without getting a biased answer from the other side.&nbsp; 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Bottom Line

Grief is a normal part of life and it can be hard to deal with. But remember, there are ways to cope with your feelings and move on from them. If you&rsquo;re struggling with grief or have lost someone close to you, remember that you&rsquo;re not alone. Reach out for help if needed, but don&rsquo;t forget that it may take time before things feel better again!

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To Meat Or Not To Meat?

Introduction

Research over the years has shown that a strict vegetarian diet excluding all animal fats can lead to vitamin B12 deficiency. Thus, increasing the risk of developing anemia. Newer research also suggests that a more lenient diet puts people at risk of developing <a href="https://www.merisehat.pk/disease/anemia">anemia </a>and heart disease.

There are various reasons behind people giving up eating meat and animal products (milk, cheese, and eggs). However, doing so might increase their risk of anemia, which is a potentially serious condition in which the body does not make enough red blood cells. For vegetarians, vitamin B12 deficiency anemia is typically caused because of eliminating meat from their diet. Similarly, for vegans, giving up all animal products including dairy, eggs, and even honey increases the risk of developing anemia.&nbsp; 
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Understanding Ways To Diversify Iron Sources In Vegetarian And Vegan Diets

A lack of vitamin B12 in your diet can cause pernicious anemia. The body needs vitamin B12 from foods such as meat, poultry, fish and eggs to make red blood cells. Pernicious anemia is a rare type of anemia in which the body is unable to absorb vitamin B12. The vitamin is only available in meat and animal products. While vegetarians who eat dairy and eggs are getting enough vitamin B12 through these sources, vegans must find other ways to include it in their diets, for example, through vitamin B12 supplements. 
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Vitamin B12 deficiency can boost the levels of homocysteine in the blood, a common amino acid that is associated with a higher risk of heart disease. Studies also suggest that the level of this amino acid can over time cause blockages in arteries and lead to heart disease or stroke. Vitamin B12, unlike B vitamins, is not found in any plant derived foods and fortified cereals. However, many types of meat and fish are abundant in vitamin B12. Thus, making it difficult for people following a strict vegetarian diet to get the necessary amount of vitamin B12. The answer is to eat a well-balanced diet and get the needed B12 from other sources, such as vitamin B12 supplementation, to prevent anemia.&nbsp; 
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Look for foods fortified with vitamin B12. Read the nutrition label on packaged foods. Some examples of processed foods that contain vitamin B12 are:&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>Fortified rice&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Soy milk&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Grain products and cereal&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Meat substitutes</li>
	<li>Dietary supplements containing B complex&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Nutritional yeast&nbsp; 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Whether you are on a vegan or vegetarian diet, you need to create a healthy and balanced diet that includes enough vitamin B12 to prevent anemia. While fortified cereals are a good choice because of their good bioavailability, meaning it doesn&rsquo;t need to break down before the body absorbs them, vegetarians should consume the following foods on a regular basis:&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>8 ounces (oz) of yogurt contains about 1.1 mcg of vitamin B12</li>
	<li>1 cup of low-fat milk can provide 1.2 mcg of vitamin B12</li>
	<li>1 oz of Swiss cheese can contain 0.95 mcg of vitamin B12</li>
	<li>1 large egg contains 0.6 mcg of vitamin B12</li>
</ul>

Nutritional yeast is also popular among vegetarians because of its rich, cheesy, and nutty flavor. The yeast can either be added to cooked meals or sprinkled on foods and snacks.

<div>
Since vegans avoid all animal-derived products, they may rely on vitamin B12 fortified breakfast cereals and nutritional yeast, as an alternative source of vitamin B12. For example, fortified non-dairy milk, meat substitutes, breakfast cereals, nutritional yeast, and vegan spreads. However, it is essential to read the labels of the foods as some may not be fortified in vitamin B12.&nbsp;

For those who are deficient in vitamin B12, supplemental vitamins in the form of capsules may be required.&nbsp; 
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If you decide on taking a dietary supplement, there are some ground rules. A healthy body does not readily absorb all the vitamin B12 in a supplement. Food supplements should never be used as a substitute for a balanced diet and healthy lifestyle. Therefore, it is essential that you talk to your doctor or nutritionist to know the amount of vitamin B12 supplement that is right for you.&nbsp; 
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Key Points

<ul>
	<li>Vegetarians and vegans need to take steps to make sure that they are including an adequate amount of vitamin B12 in their diet. Not maintaining proper levels of vitamin B12 increases the risk of developing anemia.</li>
	<li>Similarly, since there are no plant-derived foods that contain vitamin B12, it is essential to look into alternative sources, for example, fortified foods and vitamin B12 supplements.</li>
	<li>Speak with a healthcare provider for advice on how much you need to take and where to find sources of vitamin B12.</li>
</ul>

[1] Pawlak, R., Parrott, S.J., Raj, S., Cullum-Dugan, D. and Lucus, D., 2013. How prevalent is vitamin B12 deficiency among vegetarians? Nutrition reviews, 71(2), pp.110-117.

[2] Walsh, S., Appleby, P., Baron, L., Dallas-Chapman, G., Davis, B. and Harris, W., 2001. What every vegan should know about vitamin B12. Birmingham: Vegan Society.

[3] Watanabe, F., Yabuta, Y., Bito, T. and Teng, F., 2014. Vitamin B12-containing plant food sources for vegetarians. Nutrients, 6(5), pp.1861-1873.

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The Power Of Stepping Forward

There&rsquo;s a widely held perception that <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/body-weight-exercises-for-strength-training">effective exercises</a> are meant to exhaust you and be physically difficult. When looking to build an exercise regime, most of us are quick to add high-intensity activities like weightlifting and running. Rarely, if ever, does one consider beginning with the simplest and easily accessible activity: walking.&nbsp;

While it may not necessarily outweigh the benefits of a high-intensity strength circuit, walking comes with a host of benefits for both the body and mind. If one is completely new to exercising, or even returning after a long hiatus, walking is a more sustainable place to start. There is no learning curve because it is the one movement that&rsquo;s been inherent to our lives since infancy. It also allows you to start with a gentle pace and build up as your body allows. Whether you start with a moderate pace for ten minutes a day or walk at a faster pace for an hour, you will still be able to reap the many benefits of this activity. 
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Benefits of walking

Walking has been shown to improve blood circulation in the body and lower one&rsquo;s resting heart rate, while lowering blood pressure and cholesterol. A six-year study found that moderately paced walking showed similar reductions in the risk of high blood pressure and cholesterol when compared to vigorous running. A study of post-menopausal woman also showed that walking just one to two miles a day can lower blood pressure by 11 points in 24 weeks. 
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&nbsp;Research shows that walking contributes towards preventing a range of diseases. Improvement in cardiovascular health leads to a decrease in risk of heart disease. In one study, women who walked 30 minutes a day showed a 20 percent decrease in the possibility of having a stroke. Those who walked at a faster, above average pace showed a 40 percent decrease.

In another study, women who walked seven or more hours a week were shown to be 14 percent less likely to get breast cancer as compared to women who walked less than three hours. Even women with other risk factors, such as being on supplemental hormones, were less likely to get the disease.&nbsp;

With its benefits to overall health, regular walking has been shown to reduce risk of early death by upto 39 percent as compared to a sedentary lifestyle. 
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&nbsp;Walking has also been shown to reduce risks of developing Type 2 diabetes, as it helps to balance blood sugar levels. A meta-analysis of 300,000 showed that walking regular decreases the likelihood of Type 2 diabetes by 30 percent. Walking at a brisk pace, of more than 20 minutes to a mile, is even more effective, reducing risk by 41 percent. Meanwhile, a smaller study, of 201 people with Type 2 diabetes showed that every additional 2,600 steps in daily activity was associated with a 0.2 percent decrease in blood sugar level. 
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&nbsp;A joint is the point where two or more bones are joined, such as our knees and elbows. The health of our joints greatly impacts our overall mobility and is essential for living comfortably and pain free. Walking has been shown to improve joint health while reducing chances of osteoarthritis. It lubricates the joints, which protects our bones from friction, and strengthens the muscles that support them. Research has shown that people who walk regularly experienced a 40 percent reduction in knee pain as opposed to those who didn&rsquo;t. 
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&nbsp;Walking has been proven to boost our immune system&rsquo;s ability to protect us against illness. A study tracked 1,000 adults during flu season. Those who walked at a moderate pace for 30 to 45 minutes a day faced 43 percent less sick days and suffered from fewer respiratory infections overall. Even if they did get sick, their symptoms were not as severe or long-lasting when compared to adults with sedentary lifestyles. 
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&nbsp;Like other forms of exercise, walking causes our body to release endorphins. These are neurotransmitters which elevate our mood and alleviate pain. There is ample evidence to support the positive relationship between walking and mental health. One study showed that the more steps people took in a day, the better their mood was. Just 12 minutes of walking resulted in more self-confidence and a better mood in the subjects of another study.

Walking in nature helps us ruminate less over negative experiences, which in turn decreases negative emotions and risk of depression. A study of post-menopausal women showed that walking three times a week for 40 minutes provided relief from symptoms of depression. With all the research to support walking, it&rsquo;s no surprise that psychologists agree a 10-minute walk can be as effective as a 45-minute vigorous workout when it comes to relieving depression. 
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&nbsp;For creative professionals, walking can be a valuable tool in facilitating idea generation. One study compared people trying to think of new ideas while they were walking with those who were sitting. Participants who were walking did better, especially if they were walking outdoors. Research has also shown that walking improves creative output by more than 60 percent. Science shows that engaging in activities that allow our mind to wander creates a mental state that is conducive to coming up with ideas. If we are able to let go of our thoughts while walking, we can go to a place where ideas flow freely to us.

Although simple, walking has incredible and wide-ranging benefits for your body and mental health and should definitely be incorporated as a part of your lifestyle.&nbsp;

Ayesha Binte Rashid

Can't Go To Sleep? Here’s Why And How To Fix It

You&rsquo;re lying in bed, trying to fall asleep. You&rsquo;ve tried everything: reading a book, taking a bath, meditating, nothing seems to work. If this sounds like you, don&rsquo;t worry, I&rsquo;m here to help. In this article, we&rsquo;ll explore some of the most common reasons why people can&rsquo;t fall asleep and what you can do about them. 
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trick your body into sleeping

It&rsquo;s hard to shut down the mind, but if you can allow yourself to be free of all thoughts, worries and overthinking, it&rsquo;s easier to get a good night&rsquo;s sleep. This is why meditation has become so popular as a way to relax and clear your mind.

If you are having trouble going to sleep at night because you have too much on your mind, try focusing on relaxing exercises, such as taking deep breaths for 10 minutes or listening to calming music before bedtime.

If you feel like there is simply too much for your mind to process before bedtime, try not to think about anything at all until after midnight (or whenever you plan on falling asleep). That means no worrying about things that happened earlier in the day or what needs doing tomorrow morning&mdash;just let everything go until it&#39;s time for bed!

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Your environment can also influence the quality of your sleep. If you are sharing a bed with a partner who snores, or have pets that are noisy at night, this can affect your ability to get into REM and deep sleep stages of sleep. If you suffer from these problems, try to keep your pets out during night time.

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If you nap during the day, this can make it harder to fall asleep at night. This is because napping reduces your total sleep time and delays your internal circadian rhythm. In other words, it makes for a long period of time with reduced sleep quality and quantity, which makes falling asleep at night even more difficult.

Napping during the day also makes you feel groggy when it&rsquo;s time to go to bed. It&rsquo;s like drinking coffee in the morning. Once the caffeine has worn off, you may find yourself struggling to stay awake until lunchtime, instead of the usual 3pm!

If you want an afternoon nap but don&rsquo;t want these side effects on your nighttime slumber, consider power naps (naps lasting between 15 minutes and 1 hour), instead of full-on snoozing sessions (which can last longer than 90 minutes). Naps are great if they help improve alertness or performance, however, they shouldn&#39;t be used as a substitute for nighttime sleep if that&rsquo;s what you need most!

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You may have heard that it&#39;s important to go to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning. This is true, but even more important is your schedule on weekends and weekdays. If you get enough sleep every night, then it doesn&rsquo;t matter if you sleep in on Saturdays or stay up late on Sundays, your body will adjust to these changes when they happen.&nbsp;

However, if you&rsquo;re not getting enough sleep overall, especially if it&rsquo;s because of inconsistent nighttime habits, then your body might have trouble adjusting to irregular schedules.

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Imagine this scenario: you go to bed at 10pm as usual, but you&rsquo;re not tired. You try and get comfortable, but you can&rsquo;t stop thinking about all of the things that happened during the day &mdash; the conversations you had with colleagues, how much work is left to do tomorrow, or what your friends are doing right now. You start worrying about them and then feel guilty because they don&rsquo;t have time for a phone call when they could be sleeping.&nbsp;

Then another thought pops into your head: did I switch off my iron? Should I check? Now we all know that checking whether an appliance is turned off isn&rsquo;t going to help us sleep any better than worrying if our friends are safe (unless there&rsquo;s a fire nearby somewhere), but this process repeats itself over and over again until suddenly, it&rsquo;s 2am, and there&rsquo;s no hope for rest tonight either!

So how can we avoid these situations? The key is finding something else, anything else, to occupy our minds instead of keeping track of every single little thing that crosses our minds throughout the day.

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Pillow size is another important consideration. Your pillow should be firm enough to support your head and neck, but soft enough to mold around your head and neck as you sleep. A proper pillow will also allow you to keep your spine in alignment while sleeping on either side or on your back, which helps with good posture.

If you have been using the same old pillows for years, it may be time for an upgrade. If a new pillow doesn&rsquo;t work right away, try adjusting its height (keep adding or removing stuffing) until you find one that works for you 
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Don&rsquo;t forget about the other side of the bed - do not share a bed with someone if that person snores heavily. Snoring can really affect quality of life. If a partner snores loudly enough at night that it keeps other people awake or keeps them from getting enough sleep themselves, then this could lead to fights between couples over who gets up earlier so they don&rsquo;t disturb their spouse&#39;s slumber. This problem can be resolved by setting up separate bedrooms for each person or getting rid of noisy beds altogether by buying two twin mattresses instead!

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If you can&rsquo;t get to sleep, it could be for any number of reasons. There are a lot of things that can keep you from drifting off into blissful slumber.

<ul>
	<li>You have too much going on. If there&rsquo;s something weighing on your mind, or if you&rsquo;re in an environment that&rsquo;s too stimulating (like a loud restaurant or party), try taking a moment to reflect on everything that&rsquo;s stressing you out and how it might affect your sleep quality. Try jotting down some notes and setting aside time tomorrow to talk over those issues with someone else so they&rsquo;re not still bothering you when it&rsquo;s bedtime.</li>
	<li>You napped during the day or had too much caffeine/food/alcohol before bedtime. When we nap during the day, we tend to wake up feeling more alert than usual, and while this can be helpful if we have somewhere important to go after work and need the extra boost, it can also hinder our ability to fall asleep at night when all we want is rest.</li>
	<li>Your sleep schedule is off-kilter or irregularly shifted throughout the week due to travel changes etcetera. This will make it harder for us humans whose bodies are programmed over thousands of years by evolution just like all animals&rsquo; bodies, except ours has evolved way faster so now sometimes ours needs work done on them sometimes too. Thus, needing proper rest does matter, so here are some tips. 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

If you are listening to music, watching TV, or playing video games, shut it off! Your brain may be losing focus and this makes it hard for you to sleep.

If you can&rsquo;t sleep, get up and do something else before going back to bed. The more time spent lying awake in bed the more difficult it becomes to fall asleep again.

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On a personal note, I have always <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/are-you-sleeping-on-your-sleep-cycle" target="_blank">struggled with sleeping</a>. When I was younger, I had to have my mom read me bedtime stories to help me fall asleep and would still be up way past midnight reading under my covers. These days, it&rsquo;s not as bad but there are still nights where my mind won&rsquo;t shut off and I find myself lying awake for hours. Sometimes it&rsquo;s because of something that happened earlier in the day or week; other times it&#39;s just a matter of getting enough rest.

As you can imagine, this can be frustrating when you want nothing more than to turn off your brain and go to sleep! But there are ways you can get better at falling asleep faster, and even staying asleep all night long if you want.

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If you have tried all of these tricks and still can&rsquo;t sleep, there&rsquo;s nothing left to do but wait it out! Just remember, sometimes things happen in life that are out of our control. If you are lying there tossing and turning, just try to breathe deeply and stay calm. It may take some time for us humans to get back into a <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/are-you-sleeping-on-your-sleep-cycle">regular sleeping cycle</a> again, so don&rsquo;t be discouraged if you&rsquo;re stuck in bed all day without any hope of going anywhere else anytime soon!

What To Do After Getting A Caesarean?

You&rsquo;ve had your baby, and you&rsquo;re ready to go home. But before you can leave the hospital, there&rsquo;s some post-delivery care that you should take care of. In this article, we&rsquo;ll cover caesarean section (C-section) aftercare, including when it&rsquo;s time to take your catheter out and when you&#39;re ready for discharge from the hospital.

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recovery after  a c-section

After you have a C-section, this is the most critical period. You might feel tired, emotional, or anxious about your baby or yourself. Be sure to:&nbsp; 
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Make Time For Yourself And Rest

<ul>
	<li>Drink water</li>
	<li>Eat healthy</li>
	<li>Do light exercises only (such <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/how-walking-helps-you-think-bette">as walking</a>) 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Take Care Of Your Wound And Stitches (If Applicable). You Need To

<ul>
	<li>Keep your wound clean and dry</li>
	<li>Wear comfortable maternity clothes that make it easy to get in and out of bed easily. Think loose fitting tops with leggings</li>
	<li>Avoid tight clothing, such as jeans or elastic waistbands, etc.</li>
	<li>Avoid heavy lifting or carrying heavy objects, etc.</li>
	<li>Speak to your doctor if you feel there is an infection developing in your wound area (this can happen on rare occasions) 
	 
	Ask for help from friends and family members when needed 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

You might feel weak and sore for a while after your surgery. Don&#39;t worry, it is normal! Moving around would help you feel better and get the blood flowing through your body again. You might want to ask someone to help with the lifting and carrying of heavy objects until you&#39;ve fully recovered from your surgery. 
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Here are some useful tips for moving around:

<ul>
	<li>Care For Your Incision: You&rsquo;ll likely be in the hospital for 2-3 days. During that time, your healthcare team would ask you to do a few things to help ensure you&rsquo;re on the right track.</li>
	<li>Keep Your Incision Clean And Dry. If needed, use pads or bandages.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Avoid Placing Hot Water Bottles or heating pads over your incision area because they could increase swelling and cause pain.</li>
	<li>Do Not Lift Anything That&rsquo;s Heavy during the first six weeks following your surgery. And even after that, if there&rsquo;s something you need to move, keep it light or, better yet, ask for help!</li>
	<li>Avoid Sexual Intercourse for six weeks after having a c-section (or until advised otherwise). This is to allow your uterus and vagina to heal well before you have another child vaginally.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>After The Period Of Six Months, you might resume intercourse as normal, but again, keep it light.&nbsp; 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

<ul>
	<li>Stretching. It&rsquo;s a good idea to stretch your abdominal muscles and any other muscles that have been affected by the surgery.</li>
	<li>Breathing exercises. Use diaphragmatic breathing (also called belly breathing) to help relax your body and calm down after surgery.</li>
	<li>Pelvic floor exercises. They help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and support the uterus, bladder, and bowel function after pregnancy. They also improve sexuality for both men and women, increase energy levels (and thus productivity) and reduce lower back pain or sciatica symptoms by improving posture or alignment through strengthening these core muscles</li>
	<li>Walking is a great form of exercise during recovery time because it helps strengthen leg muscles while also building endurance, which is helpful if you have had stitches put in place during surgery! 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

<ul>
	<li>If you notice any unusual bleeding, such as a sudden gush of blood, or if the flow of your postpartum discharge changes in colour or consistency</li>
	<li>If you experience pain or discomfort</li>
	<li>If you have a fever (above 100&deg;F) 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

Note: If you have questions about your recovery that aren&rsquo;t covered here, please ask your obstetrician or midwife.&nbsp;

If you&rsquo;re concerned about anything at all whether it&rsquo;s the way your belly feels after surgery (which, by the way, should feel like it has been run over by a truck!), whether there&rsquo;s an abnormal amount of blood coming out of your vagina, whether there are signs of infection (fever, chills), etc., go see someone right away.

It&rsquo;s better to err on the side of caution than risk an infection setting in that could lead to more problems later on down the road. And even though C-sections carry risks themselves (mainly related with anaesthesia), they&rsquo;re still safer than vaginal births when it comes down to actually giving birth itself. 
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Just sitting back and waiting for your body to heal would get you there. But you could be up and running and taking care of your baby with the right care in no time.&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>Take It Easy. It might be tempting to jump right back into your normal routine, but try to cut yourself some slack. Your body needs time to heal after having been through an invasive procedure like surgery.</li>
	<li>Don&rsquo;t Be Afraid of taking pain medication, if necessary. If soreness is keeping you from getting quality rest at night, talk with your caregiver about options for relieving this discomfort. 
	&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

C-section recovery is a process. You might not feel like doing much, but it&rsquo;s important that you get up and move around as soon as possible. The more your body moves around, the sooner it will heal!

Iqra Mazhar

Anemia: Best Meals For Boosting Iron

Iron deficiency anemia is the most common nutritional disorder in the world according to the World Health Organization. A deficiency in the mineral i.e. iron leads to a deficiency in red blood cells, which causes anemia. Oxygen binds to the hemoglobin in the red blood cells and is transported to the organs and tissues. In anemia, the blood is not carrying enough oxygen to the cells of the body. Thus, causing you to feel weak and tired.

There are several causes of iron deficiency anemia, but inadequate dietary intake and a loss of blood are the two most common causes. Doctors typically prescribe oral iron supplements and intravenous (IV) iron to treat iron deficiency.&nbsp;

Similarly, people with iron deficiency anemia are also encouraged to follow a diet plan specifically designed for iron deficiency. The diet includes animal- and plant-based iron-rich foods, such as poultry, meat, seafood, nuts, seeds, and beans. While an iron-rich diet is necessary, you also need to include foods in your diet that improve the body&rsquo;s absorption of iron, in addition to avoiding foods that may interfere with the process.&nbsp;

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Understanding Ways To Increase Dietary Iron

Adding iron-rich foods to your diet and foods that increase the absorption of iron is the best way to curb iron-deficiency anemia. Iron-fortified cereals, bread products, orange juice, rice, and bread help with bringing iron levels back up. Below is a diet plan that a person with anemia may follow:&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<h5 dir="ltr">Breakfast&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
	<li>
	Option 1: Unsweetened, iron-fortified oatmeal topped with either almonds, cashews, or walnuts, and a glass (8 ounces) of 100% orange juice which may help increase the absorption of iron in your body.&nbsp;
	</li>
	<li>Option 2: Brown bread, eggs, and apples, with a hand full of iron-rich nuts. Avoid tea and coffee with your meals as it inhibits the absorption of iron.&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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<h5 dir="ltr">Lunch&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
	<li>
	Option 1: Boiled rice, chickpeas, or lentils with beef, chicken, or fish.&nbsp;
	</li>
	<li>Option 2: Chapati, leafy green vegetables, for example, spinach, or any other iron-rich vegetables, such as potatoes, beef, chicken, or fish curry.&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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<h5 dir="ltr">Dinner&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
	<li>
	Option 1: Mutton curry or chops with chapati, or boiled rice with a leafy green vegetable on the side.&nbsp;
	</li>
	<li>Option 2: Stew any kind of meat with <a href="https://www.merisehat.pk/disease/chronic-kidney-disease">kidney</a> beans, chickpeas, and tomatoes with either boiled rice or chapati.</li>
</ul>

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There are many foods that contain high levels of iron and can be combined to make nutritious meals to help with the intake of iron. Foods rich in vitamin C, such as tomatoes, cauliflower, apples, and oranges should also be added to your diet because they help with the absorption of iron. Below is a list of foods that you can add to your diet to help with iron-deficiency anemia:

&nbsp;

<h5 dir="ltr">Fruits And Vegetables&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
	<li>Spinach&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Beetroot&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Soybean&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Kale&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Broccoli&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Citrus fruits, oranges, grapefruit&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Pomegranate&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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<h5 dir="ltr">Nuts&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
</ul>

<ul>
	<li>Cashews&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Pistachios&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Almonds&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Walnuts</li>
</ul>

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<h5 dir="ltr">Meat And Fish&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
</ul>

<ul>
	<li>Beef&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Lamb&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Venison&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Liver&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Shrimp&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Salmon&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Tuna&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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<h5 dir="ltr">Beans And Pulses&nbsp;</h5>

<ul>
	<li>Kidney beans&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Chickpeas&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Soybeans&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Black beans&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Pinto beans&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Peas&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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If you have been diagnosed with iron deficiency anemia, there are a few foods and drinks you should avoid because they can keep your body from absorbing iron into your system.&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>Black and green teas make the iron from plant sources indigestible.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Coffee also prevents iron from being absorbed&nbsp;into your system. If you are taking iron-rich supplements or an iron-rich meal, avoid drinking coffee an hour before and after.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Calcium-rich foods, for example, milk, yogurt, bananas, and some nuts interfere with the absorption of iron in the body.</li>
	<li>Gluten-containing foods such as pasta, barley, rye, wheat products, and oats, damage the intestinal walls and prevent the absorption of iron.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Foods that contain phytates, such as legumes, whole-grain wheat, and brown rice should also be avoided because they prevent the absorption of iron.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Foods containing oxalic acids, such as peanuts, parsley, chocolates, and spinach should also be eaten in a limited quantity if you are on iron medication.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Tannins containing foods, such as grapes and corn should also be avoided.</li>
</ul>

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Although iron-rich foods help raise the levels of iron in the blood, to achieve a healthy iron status, most people also need to take supplements alongside following a healthy diet. Some people also do not absorb iron well and may need IV iron treatments. Your doctor will best advise treatment based on your needs. However, the following tips can help with increasing the absorption of iron:

<ul>
	<li>Avoid tea and coffee with meals.</li>
	<li>Avoid calcium-rich foods.</li>
	<li>Have iron-rich foods with those rich in vitamin C.</li>
	<li>Cook food for shorter periods on a cast-iron skillet.</li>
</ul>

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Conclusion

Following an iron-rich meal is perhaps the easiest way to recover from anemia. All the foods mentioned on the list are easily available at well-stocked grocery stores. If you&rsquo;ve tried changing your diet, but failed at bringing your iron levels back to normal, you should speak with a doctor or dietician. They will recommend a supplement that is most effective for you, based on your needs.&nbsp;

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Mental Health Tips For Dysmenorrhea

If you&#39;re a woman in your 20s, 30s, or really any age, there must have been days when you struggled with your mental health. Dark thoughts, anxiety, low mood, an inability to carry out normal day-to-day chores, chances are you&#39;ve experienced them all. And if you suffer from <a href="https://www.merisehat.pk/disease/dysmenorrhea">dysmenorrhea</a>, then the chances of anxiety, irritability, etc. become much higher. Despite society conditioning us into thinking that period pain is a part of life, there is nothing okay about having to deal with debilitating pain on a monthly basis.

<a href="https://www.merisehat.pk/disease/dysmenorrhea">Dysmenorrhea</a>, also called painful menstruation, affects more than 50% of university students in Pakistan<a href="#accordion">[1]</a>. Along with severe pain, many women also report sleep disturbances, difficulty concentrating on work or studies, and frequent leaves from work or school<a href="#accordion">[2]</a>. Additionally, women with dysmenorrhea have higher depression and anxiety scores<a href="#accordion">[3]</a>. Thus, significantly impacting their quality of life.

So, if you&#39;re someone struggling with dysmenorrhea and its mental health effects, here are some of the things you can do to feel better.

&nbsp;

Understanding Dysmenorrhea And Mental Health

Over five thousand years ago, people in Northern India developed what we now call yoga. The exercise and relaxation method has evolved over the years, but what has remained the same is its ability to help people heal, both physically and emotionally. Yoga isn&#39;t just some exercise. It is also a way for people ground themselves and connect with their thoughts.

In dysmenorrhea, the increased levels of prostaglandins and estrogen cause the uterine muscles to contract. As these muscles contract, they push against the surrounding blood vessels, temporarily cutting off the oxygen supply to the muscle. Thus, resulting in pain around the lower abdomen and back.&nbsp;

Various yoga poses can help relax the muscles and improve the blood supply to the pelvic region. Moreover, the various stretches also help calm the mind and revive your energy. However, no one&#39;s asking you to twist your body into crazy positions. You can start by practicing simple poses such as the pigeon pose, fish pose, bound angle pose, and child&#39;s pose. It&#39;s best to avoid leg lifts and any rigorous physical activity during the first few days of your periods.&nbsp;

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Deep breathing exercises involve a combination of slow, deep inhales and exhales. They help increase blood flow in the blood vessels, relax muscles, and reduce pain perception. Thus, relieving anxiety and depression symptoms among people. It is also one of non-pharmacological methods of reducing pain in women with dysmenorrhea.

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Here&#39;s a simple deep breathing exercise you can try next time you feel anxious or low on emery:

<ol>
	<li>Lie on your back in bed or on a yoga mat.</li>
	<li>Inhale and exhale to relax your body.</li>
	<li>Now place a hand on your belly.</li>
	<li>As you take a deep breath in, feel your belly rise into your hand.</li>
	<li>Breath out slowly and feel the belly move down as the air exits your body.</li>
	<li>Take three more breaths like this, focusing on the movement of your belly and feeling the air filling your body and leaving with every exhale.</li>
</ol>

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Dysmenorrhea can be an extremely debilitating condition for women. Coupled with pain, women are also affected with mental health disorders such as depression and anxiety. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness about the mental health implications of this gynecological disorder. Moreover, researchers believe that psychiatric intervention can help women and adolescent girls suffering from dysmenorrhea have a better quality of life.

<ul>
</ul>

<ul>
	<li>Dysmenorrhea, defined as painful menstruation, is associated with higher depression and anxiety levels among women.</li>
	<li>Yoga is a simple exercise technique that can help relax muscles and calm the mind, helping ease symptoms of depression and anxiety in women with dysmenorrhea.</li>
	<li>Deep breathing exercises involve slow, deep breaths that increase oxygenation of muscles and blood vessels; thus, relaxing muscles and reducing anxiety and depression.</li>
	<li>There is a need for a multidisciplinary approach in women suffering from dysmenorrhea. Psychological intervention can help improve their quality of life.</li>
</ul>

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[1] Yasir, S., Kant, B. & Dar, M. F., 2014. FREQUENCY OF DYSMENORRHOEA, ITS IMPACT AND MANAGEMENT STRATEGIES ADOPTED BY MEDICAL STUDENTS. Journal of Ayub Medical College Abbotabad, 26(3).

[2] Unsal, A. et al., 2010. Prevalence of dysmenorrhea and its effect on quality of life among a group of female university students. Upsala Journal of Medical Sciences, 115(2), pp. 138-145.

[3] Sahin, N. et al., 2018. Assessment of anxiety-depression levels and perceptions of quality of life in adolescents with dysmenorrhea. Reproductive Health, Volume 15.

Nimrah H. Sattar

Getting Back To Working Out After Giving Birth

The weeks after one&rsquo;s delivery can be as stressful as they are joyous. Newborn babies need constant attention and it&rsquo;s difficult to take out time to care for oneself. When the baby is down for a nap, it&rsquo;s our chance to get some sleep too or catch up on chores. Naturally, there&rsquo;s very little time or mental space for fitness and physical activity. Plus, there&rsquo;s the physical exhaustion that comes with long nights and breastfeeding. 
However, taking care of our bodies is essential to recovering quickly from pregnancy and childbirth. Taking time out for fitness enables us to better manage the stressors that come with a newborn baby, both physically and emotionally. This, in turn, ensures that we are able to enjoy the joys of new motherhood as well.

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time to recover body

As a new mother, it&rsquo;s important to ensure that you are consuming all of the nutrients that are essential to your health and recovery. If you are breastfeeding, it is even more important that you consume a nutritious diet.&nbsp;

Try to include a good amount of protein in your diet, as well as good fats and essential fatty acids. Eating a sufficient amount of carbs will give you the energy you need to keep up with your baby. Make sure to include fruits and nutrients in your diet as they are an important source of <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/a-guide-to-essential-vitamins-and-micronutrients-and-should-you-be-taking-them">micronutrients and fibre</a>.&nbsp;

If you have a straightforward vaginal delivery, you can start with gentle movement in the form of short walks as soon as the day you deliver; however, you will have to wait till your epidural has been taken out. If you delivered via a caesarean or faced postpartum complications, you may have to wait a few extra days to give your body time to recover.&nbsp; 
&nbsp;

<h5>Moderate Walking</h5>

Easy to moderate walking is the best way to start moving after childbirth. You can start with just 20 minutes a day and gently build up to half an hour over the course of four to six weeks. Consider breaking up your walks into several walks a day to avoid tiring yourself out and being able to fit them in more easily into your newborn&rsquo;s routine. You could start with two 10-minute walks a day, build that up to two 12-minute walks after a few days and so on. Walking burns calories, while also strengthening muscles and joints, and improving blood circulation. 
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<h5>Postpartum Exercises</h5>

Incorporate gentle postpartum exercises and stretches into your routine in the first few weeks after a delivery. There is a lot of information online about safe postpartum exercises. You can look some up and aim to do them for five minutes a day. YouTube videos focused on postpartum exercises can also be easy to follow along, and if you&rsquo;d like the opportunity to get out of the house, a postpartum exercise or yoga class might just be the thing for you. As with walking, start with just a few minutes a day and slowly build up as your body adjusts.

Your pelvic floor and core tend to be particularly weak after childbirth. Before you move onto high-impact exercises, it is important to build some strength in these parts of the body. You can start doing gentle pelvic exercises, like kegels and pelvic tilts in the first week after your delivery. Aim to do them for about five minutes at a time, up to three times a day. Again, there&rsquo;s no need to do long sessions and tire yourself out. Fitting in smaller movement sessions throughout the day will ensure that you are able to be consistent and don&rsquo;t end up pushing yourself too much.

About a month after childbirth, you can start exercising core exercises into your routine. Again, this also depends on what kind of delivery you&rsquo;ve had and whether you faced any complications during or after. Once again, incorporate a few minutes of core work into your daily movement sessions and break it up into two to three sessions a day.&nbsp; 
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<h5>As A Rule Of Thumb</h5>

You should wait at least six weeks after childbirth to get into high-impact exercises. It&rsquo;s important to prepare your body in the preceding weeks and to also take it slow when you do start with higher impact movement. Make sure to consult your doctor and get their okay beforehand. Even at this stage, start slowly and listen to your body. There&rsquo;s no need to push forward from the get go. What&rsquo;s important is that you maintain consistency and build up in a manner that is doable for you. 
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It&rsquo;s easy to forget to take care of ourselves in the first few months after childbirth. But we need to remember that we need as much love and care as our newborn babies do. Being kind to yourself and patient with your body is especially important after a delivery. Remember, the healthier you feel, the better you&rsquo;ll be able to enjoy the time you get with your newborn!

Humza Khizer

Should I Be Anxious About My IBS?

<a href="https://www.merisehat.pk/disease/irritable-bowel-syndrome-62">Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS)</a> is defined as a type of gastrointestinal condition that causes problems in the digestive system. IBS affects 10 to 15 percent of the world&rsquo;s population. However, the symptoms are different for every person. While IBS is not a life-threatening condition, it can have a significant impact on one&rsquo;s well-being by affecting one&rsquo;s quality of life. The situation worsens when a person suffers from anxiety and IBS.

&nbsp;

Understanding Link Between Anxiety And IBS

Anxiety disorders is an umbrella term used for general anxiety disorder, panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and social anxiety disorder. A shared symptom of these disorders is excessive worry or anxiety.&nbsp; Physical symptoms of anxiety disorders include fast heart rate, sweating and fatigue. This may interfere with one&rsquo;s ability to get through normal everyday activities.&nbsp;

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IBS is a disorder of the digestive tract that causes abnormal bowel movements. Unlike Crohn&rsquo;s disease or ulcerative colitis, the physical structure of the digestive tract is unaffected, i.e. IBS is not a functional disorder. Common symptoms of IBS include diarrhea, constipation, and abdominal pain. Anxiety disorders affect more than a third of all U.S. adults while IBS affects 7% to 21% of the U.S. population. However, there is no reliable data for how many people experience both anxiety disorder and IBS. Some studies have shown that anxiety disorders are more common in people with IBS. According to a study assessing the prevalence of anxiety disorders and IBS, 44% of people with IBS had an anxiety disorder, compared to 8% of people without IBS.&nbsp;

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According to scientists, the mind and gut are intertwined. This is what scientists refer to as the gut-brain axis, which is a two-way signaling system between the gut and the brain. In response to our thoughts, feelings, and environment, our bodies release chemicals that affect different processes in our bodies. However, in the case of anxiety and IBS, whenever you feel anxious, your body releases stress-related chemicals in the gut causing inflammation leading to abnormal bowel movements, abdominal pain, and a change in gut bacteria.

Additionally, a poorly functioning gut has also been linked with mental health problems. Scientists explain that this is because our brain depends on the chemicals and hormones made by the bacteria in the gut for e.g. 90% of the serotonin (which is an important chemical that controls our mood and keeps anxiety levels low) is produced in our gut. Mental health problems are associated with increased and decreased production of serotonin.&nbsp;

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Unfortunately, the causative factors of IBS have yet to be elucidated. However, there is reason to believe that it may depend on a person&rsquo;s mental health. Anxiety and other health conditions may trigger IBS.&nbsp;

Certain other risk factors may increase one&rsquo;s risk of IBS, including:&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>Having a family history of IBS&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Females are at a higher risk of developing IBS than males</li>
	<li>Being younger than 50 years of age</li>
	<li>History of severe gut infections&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Chronic psychological stress either caused by traumatic life events or alcohol addiction&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Smoking&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Certain medications that cause changes in the gut bacteria</li>
</ul>

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Studies have shown that keeping stress under control can help prevent or ease the symptoms of IBS. This is because the gut has a brain of its own, known as the enteric nervous system which is why you get butterflies in your stomach when you are nervous. Also, this &ldquo;second brain&rdquo; of yours also controls how food is digested. This second brain is in constant communication with your brain via the gut-brain axis. Thus, this connection can help manage your IBS. You can try and get rid of the tension by incorporating simple things in your daily routine, for example, going shopping, listening to music, reading, or talking to a friend. Other ways to alleviate stress and anxiety include:

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Exercise&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Exercising, for example, walking, swimming, running or other such physical activities can help you cope with anxiety and depression. Exercise also helps with normal bowel contractions.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Mind-Body Exercise, Mindfulness, And Meditation&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Meditation can help trigger your body&rsquo;s relaxation response. You can either sign up for meditation, breathing or yoga classes offered online or in person. They will help you manage stress by targeting the gut-mind connection and changing the way you think.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Relaxation Exercises&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, can help you feel calmer. The purpose of relaxation techniques is to learn about visualization and to imagine a peaceful scene. These techniques will also help you get enough sleep and eat well. You can also consider joining a self-help group for people with IBS or other digestive disorders. Members of the group will know what it is like to deal with IBS and may also be able to offer more meaningful support that you may not be able to get from even your closest friends.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Diet And Lifestyle Changes&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

The food we eat has a huge impact on our overall health. Your stomach and intestines are some of the first organs that feel the effect of the food you are eating. For treating IBS, you must start with your diet. There are specific foods that can trigger the symptoms of IBS. However, these triggers differ for everyone. Maintain a food/bowel movement journal wherein you can write about how different foods affect your bowel movements. This journal could also be helpful for discussing treatment options with your doctor. Research shows that avoiding certain foods can help prevent symptoms of IBS:&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Gas-Producing Foods</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

People with IBS are more sensitive to foods that make a person gassy for example, beans, bananas, and brussel sprouts. These foods may trigger discomfort after eating them.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Dairy&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Even if lactose is not an issue for you, you may be sensitive to other milk proteins due to your IBS.&nbsp; Try using dairy-free alternatives, such as soy or oat milk to ease bloating and other stomach issues.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Foods High In FODMAPs</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Foods high in FODMAPs (fermentable oligosaccharides, disaccharides, monosaccharides, and polyols) are short carbohydrates, such as fructose and sorbitol that appear in many fruits, vegetables, honey, and wheat. Studies have shown that these FODMAPs can linger in our guts, absorb water, and ferment, which can then cause irregular bowel movements. If you struggle with constipation, then it is recommended you stay well hydrated and eat 4-5 small meals regularly rather than eating 3 large meals a day. A diet high in fiber and soluble fiber, such as psyllium may also be helpful. Similarly, alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine aggravate symptoms of both IBS and anxiety, so reduce their consumption.&nbsp;

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Cognitive Behavioral Therapy&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

Studies have shown that cognitive behavioral therapy is an effective treatment for IBS. However, before starting with CBT, practitioners need to rule out alternative diagnoses. The most important medical conditions to rule out include inflammatory bowel disease, Crohn&rsquo;s disease, and celiac disease. Baseline blood and stool tests are generally enough to rule out these conditions. The next step is to educate the patient about the gut-brain link and how stress can directly impact gut health.

The CBT practitioner will first help train the patient in relaxation techniques including deep belly breathing. Once the patients are able to use the relaxation techniques CBT is introduced. The focus of CBT is to educate the patient that the beliefs that affect our emotions negatively can be baseless. For example, if a person is embarrassed to go to the bathroom in a public place, it can be helpful to send them to a movie theater and have them sit at the back of the theater to count the number of people who get up to use the bathroom and return. The patient will be able to see two things: the frequency of people getting up to use the bathroom and the lack of reaction towards this behavior by the surrounding people. This will help the patient understand that it is not a big deal to get up and use the bathroom.&nbsp;

Similarly, CBT exposure therapy focuses on patients overcoming their fear of doing things that they have been avoiding. For example, if a person is afraid of long car trips, make them sit in a parked car for thirty minutes. Once this gets boring, drive them around the area. Once this gets easy, drive them a mile away from home and back. If the patient worries about not being able to &ldquo;hold it&rdquo;, experiment with them to &ldquo;hold it&rdquo; for 30 seconds, then a minute, and then 5 minutes. This will prove that they can hold it and worry is unnecessary.

&nbsp;

<ul>
	<li>
	<h5>Medications&nbsp;</h5>
	</li>
</ul>

If diet and lifestyle changes are not enough to curb the problem of anxiety and IBS, many medications will help relieve symptoms.

<ul>
	<li>Metamucil, or soluble fibers available over the counter, for constipation relief.</li>
	<li>Miralax helps pull water into the intestines and encourages bowel movements.</li>
	<li>Medications approved by the FDA for IBS-related constipation, Amtizia, Linzess, and Zelnorm.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Antidepressants, including tricyclic antidepressants and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors.</li>
	<li>Imodium is a popular over-the-counter medication that slows down gut and bowel movements and treats IBS-related diarrhea.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Antispasmodics relax the muscles of the digestive system and relieve IBS-related abdominal pain.&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

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<ul>
	<li>Although there is no clear answer as to how anxiety affects your IBS or vice versa, both conditions are triggered by many different factors.</li>
	<li>If you have IBS, then there are many treatment options (medications, cognitive behavior therapy, etc.) and lifestyle changes that have been shown to help relieve symptoms and stress.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>You can discuss these treatment options with a healthcare provider and implement whatever works best for you.</li>
</ul>

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[1] Banerjee, A., Sarkhel, S., Sarkar, R. and Dhali, G.K., 2017. Anxiety and depression in irritable bowel syndrome. Indian journal of psychological medicine, 39(6), pp.741-745.

[2] Locke, G.R., Olden, K., Peterson, W., Quigley, E., Schoenfeld, P., Schuster, M. and Talley, N., 2002. Systematic review on the management of irritable bowel syndrome in North America. Am J Gastroenterol, 97, pp.S7-26.

[3] Camilleri, M., 2018, December. Management options for irritable bowel syndrome. In Mayo Clinic Proceedings (Vol. 93, No. 12, pp. 1858-1872). Elsevier.

[4] Johns Hopkins Medicine: "The Brain-Gut Connection."

[5] U.S. National Library of Medicine: "Irritable bowel syndrome treatment: cognitive behavioral therapy versus medical treatment."

Parents, Not Friends

Parenting is a very complex subject. As parents, we are always doubting ourselves, but we simultaneously justify everything we do by saying that it is for their best. Implying that we know what&rsquo;s best for them.

Most parenting habits stem from experience &mdash; both our own and other&rsquo;s as well. You go about trusting your gut, but more often than not, you are influenced by everything you have experienced yourself while growing up.&nbsp;

Perhaps, you felt your parents did something wrong, like they should have been less restrictive and more trusting to let you explore the world on your own in order to make you more independent. Perhaps, you missed out on an experience like sleepovers at a friend&rsquo;s house. Your parents justified it by saying they feared for your safety, but of course, your younger self felt left out in your group and you still feel that way.&nbsp; 
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So, you try to make up for these insecurities by being &lsquo;less&rsquo; like your parents were and more like you always wanted them to be &mdash; a confidante. Someone who is open-minded and maybe even more like-minded. But who says your parenting style is good or even one that&rsquo;s acceptable to your child?

Besides, even if you are the &lsquo;cool&rsquo; parent, there is always one thing that you or any parent should avoid &mdash; overdoing it. We need to realize that our kids won&rsquo;t consider us their besties, ever. Period. At max, we can be very good friends and we need to respect that.&nbsp; 
&nbsp;

Parenting, a complex subject

A lot of overprotective parents tend to argue that there should not be any secrets between a parent and a child. We understand that you want to take care of your child, but there is a fine line between raising your <a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/how-does-familial-conflict-or-domestic-violence-affect-children">child </a>to become a good person and dictating them to become whoever you want them to be. If we are being honest, dictatorship does not really work &mdash; not while running countries and definitely not in parenting.&nbsp; 
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Think of your child as their own person before they are your offspring. They deserve as much respect as any other person in the world. We often tend to dismiss their individuality.&nbsp;

Being your child&rsquo;s friend is all fun and games until you start trying to infiltrate their actual friend circle. Getting yourself over-involved in their lives doesn&rsquo;t work. There are always things that your child would not want you to know about them.

Invading boundaries and having no regards for them often lead to kids going astray and starting to hide things from their parents. This is where the main issue lies. It often leads to the kid losing their friendship connection with their parents. You do not want your kid to be hiding things from you on purpose.&nbsp; 
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Would you rather have your child lie to you about their whereabouts or tell them to you when they feel like it? You know the answer. We should never suffocate our children to the point that they feel the need to lie or hide things. Respect your child and their boundaries for a healthy parent-child relationship.

As parents, it&rsquo;s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day responsibilities of raising children. Sometimes we need to look beyond our own needs and pay attention to what our children need. And what they need is to play! We do not mean the new conventional mode of what&rsquo;s considered play nowadays &mdash; videogaming &mdash; we mean play play, the old-fashioned way&nbsp;&mdash; going outside, for example. And this is why: 
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<h5 dir="ltr">Channels Their Creativity</h5>

Playing is an essential part of childhood and is a critical part of your child&rsquo;s development. It allows children to use their creativity while developing their imagination, dexterity, and physical, cognitive, and emotional strength.

Playing helps children learn about the world around them by exploring it. They find out about objects in their environment by playing with them or using them in different ways. For example:

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	<li>If you want your child to know that something is hot or cold or wet or dry then give him an ice cube to hold in his hand for a few seconds then put it down for him to pick up again when his hand isn&rsquo;t frozen anymore (be careful though!). You can also do this with other things like putting sandpaper on top of newspaper so that they can feel the difference between rough or smooth surfaces etc...</li>
	<li>You could also get some paint brushes and some water colors so they could paint themselves as well as any other surfaces around them! This way they&rsquo;ll learn how different kinds of materials behave differently depending on what kinds of pressures have been applied (or not). 
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<h5>Aids In Healthy Brain Development</h5>

<a href="https://merisehat.pk/article/healthier-ways-of-disciplining-children" target="_blank">Playing helps children</a> build empathy, social skills, creativity and problem-solving skills. Your child is also bound to develop communication and physical wellness.&nbsp;

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<h5>Learning Experience Unmatched By Any School</h5>

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	<li>Playing with other children is a great way for your child to develop social skills and gain self-confidence. It helps them learn how to get along with others, compromise, share, take turns and solve problems.</li>
	<li>Children who tend to play more physically are often presented with challenges that require an on-the-spot solution. They use the process of trial and error when they play because they can experiment to see what works or doesn&#39;t work when trying something new &mdash; this teaches them how to solve problems on their own!</li>
	<li>Think about all the different ways you can use a box: build a fort inside of it, stack some blocks on top of it, turn it into an art project... there are so many options! When kids play with everyday objects like boxes instead of toys that have been given special attention by adults specifically marketed towards toddlers (with flashing lights and sounds), they can explore the world around them in new ways through open-ended play rather than pre-packaged activities that come from manufacturers who profit off selling extra stuff instead of fostering creativity in kids&#39; brains.&quot; 
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<h5>It Allows Children To Develop Resiliency</h5>

Children learn to cooperate and share with others. Playing allows children to practice problem-solving skills, which helps them become more independent thinkers and decision makers in the future.

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<h5 dir="ltr">Release Energy Or School Stress In A Fun Way</h5>

Playing is a natural way to let off steam. When you&rsquo;re a kid, the world can be overwhelming, so it&rsquo;s good for kids to have opportunities to get their feelings and stress out in a safe environment.

As children play, they learn to accept new challenges and frustrations. They experience the euphoria of winning, the endorphins released due to physical activity but most importantly, they learn to lose and quit when needed. This is a good practice for life, because we all have to face the reality that not everyone can be the first or win every time. 
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<h5 dir="ltr">Learn About The World</h5>

Children get to see places, meet people on their own and even initiate conversations. Children learn more through social interaction than they do from passive observation.

The most important aspect of playing is that it is a way for children to feel safe. They can express themselves in ways that are acceptable in a group setting without having to worry about being criticised or judged by others. In this safe environment, children can explore their feelings and thoughts without fear of repercussion from adults or other kids (which would come with consequences if done outside of play). 
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<h5 dir="ltr">Physical Fun Is Old School But Natural</h5>

Playing is one of the most natural and important things we do in our lives. In fact, it&rsquo;s a necessity for human development. Playing helps children build skills that will shape them into productive adults &mdash; skills like problem solving, socialisation and creativity.

Physical activity also helps children learn to regulate their emotions while they explore the world around them. This ability comes in handy when dealing with stressful situations later on in life (like exams or job interviews).

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Playing is something that we have been doing since the beginning of time, and it will continue to be an important part throughout all future generations. While there are many factors involved in choosing how much playtime your child should have each day, you can always look back at these reasons why playing is important for their development. So go ahead &mdash; let them play!